I don't want to have sex until I am married and I am guy! So what do you all think? Eveyone at school calls me gay because I don't want to? What do you think?
Mandi
10-30-04 2:26 AM
No waiting is totally . I waited until I was with a guy I thought I was going to marry, but I didn't. Now I don't have anything special to give my husband on that nite. Sex is precious. Hold on buddy!
10-30-04 3:02 AM
I THINK THAT IS VERY COOL THAT U WANT TO WAIT UNTIL YOU'RE MARRIED! I ONLY WISH MOST GUYS WAS LIKE U! DON'T LISTEN TO THE GUYS AT SCHOOL! THEY ARE JUST JEALOUS THAT THEY AREN'T AS COOL AS U! !
10-30-04 11:24 PM
YOU RULE MAN IM WAITING TOO!!!
Logan
11-12-04 4:41 PM
thats great i am trying to also but I cant garuntee it.
Sabotei
11-22-04 5:27 PM
dude ur not gay, u have self-disclipline, and choose to abstain from desire, which is alot harder than giving in, i respect that.
11-22-04 9:56 PM
ppl juss reject the unfamiliar. most ppl think it's weird that a guy would wana wait...since it's always expected of them not to. dont worry wut those otha ppl think...there r grls that find stuff like that very attractive...so dont fret ova it
Christa
11-24-04 7:35 PM
Who cares what those other guys think... they're ho's! I agree with the other posts. You are definetly a respectable guy and don't compromise yourself in order to "fit in with the guys". See all the girls telling you that it's great?? Yeah all those guys out there sleeping with everyone won't get the same respect or response that you have gotten! You're awesome! Keep it up dude!
Nichole
12-20-04 8:13 PM
wow, ur friends are weird that they make of u. Be proud ur a virgin, because when the person they had sex with leaves them, u can just laugh and say, "And guess what! I'm a virgin, and still have my gf! Haha!"
12-24-04 4:26 PM
Best choice you'll ever make! anyone that makes of you is CRAZY!
Katie
12-31-04 2:19 AM
Heck, what are you talking about. That would be great if most guys were like that, but there not. So be lucky that you want to wait. If you were my guy freind or a guy I was crushing on, I would so snag you. Who cares what others think of you. In the end, the only opinion you need to worry about is yourself. If people can't respect you for what you want or believe in your life, then they have no business being in it.textWell, anyway do what you please and good luck.
01-04-05 8:23 PM
Good for you! I think its great that you can make a commitment like that. I think it might be kind of to wait until marriage, but Im honestly not sure if I can wait that long.
Penelope
01-05-05 3:40 AM
Eric, it's your choice. I made mine, but that does not mean I expect my friends to have sex. My guy and I just have a certain desire.
01-07-05 10:17 PM
Hey thats great! I'm waiting but my virginity probably will only last till college...I'll try and wait but i dunno...I wish more guys were like you...i mean cuz all the guys in my school think about sex a lot... they are only in 8th grade...i know...when this girl in my class lived in the mainland 6 of her friends weren't virgins when they were in 7th grade... Oh and your not gay! any girl would be lucky to have a guy like you!
Icis
01-08-05 6:59 AM
Waiting is tottaly fine! I actually respect you for that! But remember, don't waver on your opinion just because people call you names. That's what makes a real man! :D
01-23-05 12:38 PM
I respect a guy that doesn't want to have sex until marriage. I'm still a virgin and my past two boyfriends were also. I guess if I do end up having sex before marriage I won't be too upset with myself. However, I do like the idea of sharing intimacy only with one person. I know for a fact that my current boyfriend will never have sex util he's married and I completely respect that.
Christina
01-28-05 12:36 AM
MOre people should be like you people might say now that you are gay or whatever but im sure you willl be better off down the road
Tabitha
02-02-05 3:05 PM
i think it really that i wanna wait 2 have sex.because most of the time that is the only thing guys want.
Vero
02-06-05 5:22 PM
Hey Eric...I think that is totally awesome..u r one of the few guys who actually does that...at my school all the guys want to loose their verginity way b4 they get married...but I totally admire you for that...good for u...n dont listen to those stupid guys in ur grade that call u gay...they r just stupid...well hope i ed!
casey
02-09-05 11:53 PM
wating isnt stupid. the kids at school who are calling you gay are jealous because you have expectations and dont give them up or dirrespect yourself for a piece of ass. i would to have a guy friend like you. just ignore them retards. the kids at your school probably have over 10 stds, so in other words youre lucky. forget em youre better than that.
Lola
02-18-05 9:52 PM
Hey,I HAVE A COUPLE THINGS TO SAY...:
1. How many girls have your friends used for sex and hurt them and how many have you? They have prolly hurt more than you, how does that make you feel? Good right? Hopefully!
2. Im a 15 yr old girl and me and my boyfriend are both virgins, we have been dating for a year and almost 4months. When I told him I wanted to wait til I was married, he wasnt all "jump for joy" but he respects it and restrains himself for me. I mean, I see that as a gift to give to my husband and I think that the guy should have something to give his wife, so being a guy waiting til marriage is SPECTACULAR. My boyfriend already thinks hes gonna marry me one day, but hey thats a while from now, so Im not sure about that. When I give my virginity, Im hopin Ill get someones too and that will be special!
3.People makin of you because you want to wait are stupid and immature. You are just more mature than them and Im sure that when they all get older they will regret having sex with someone other than their wive/husband. I remember one day when I told this chick I was waiting and she was all like " NO, you should do it, its and feels good!" "dont make ur boyfriend wait" I was like " You know what, do what u wanna do and Ill do what I wanna" She pi##ed me off that day. But yea, when ppl say stupid stuff to you then just say somethin like I did. Good luck and you will make a girl very happy one day!!!!!
02-25-05 4:57 PM
Oh and by the way Eric I think that's really and brave of yu to do that...
jessi
03-31-05 10:24 PM
its great that ur keeping ur virginity till after ur marriage. its one of the best descision ull ever make. dun listen to the guys who call u gay, because guess wut? once u lose ur virginity u can NEVER get it back. saving sex forr that significant other is something ull never regret.
jeleezy
04-23-05 8:16 AM
I think that if you want to wait until you are married that is totally up to you. No body can make that dicission besides your self. What does it matter that your a guy? I think it is sweet that you are fighting your hormones and holding on to your virginity. There is nothng wrong with that. It actually shows me that you have respect for you self and that is always important. In the world to day the ages at which people have sex is getting younger and younger and i think that it should be something that you and your one experience together. I dont think it is weird just because your a guy! Why should it be any differernt just because you have a penis? I dont think it should be personally! Niki A.K.A *^*HoneyComb14*^*
Roxy
04-26-05 3:25 PM
DUDE YOU ROCK! Why can't more guys be like you?
kevin
05-16-05 12:58 PM
i guess im gonna be waiting for a while too. i can just imagine the look of my future wife's face since im hoping both of us will just get lost in the process during our honeymoon. due to the fact, we are both virgins. or i hope she wont lying to me.
beeba
05-22-05 12:29 PM
ya thats great of u im also waiting till im married! keep it up its a great dicsition!
max
05-23-05 7:14 PM
I think that that is an awesome idea and you should wait for someone you really care about and want to stay with them your whole life
06-02-05 8:09 PM
I dont think you should let what other people say to you bother you.. beacause it is awesome that you wanna wait until your married!!
beautifulStranger
06-09-05 8:45 PM
it's a turn on for some girls, dont worry. and talk about having respect!!
06-15-05 11:38 PM
I think its pretty that you dont want to do it until your married. ppl are just jealous of you cuz they cant keep their hormones under control. Atleast you have self respect for yourself unlike they do. You never know when your actually going to have sex. It might happen at anytime. Just make sure its with someone you !
06-24-05 3:00 AM
just tell them u did it..omg simple lie & tell ur uhm gf that u're still clean
07-05-05 2:48 PM
oh my gosh eric, that is sooo of you, i wish guys were more like you, all the guys at my school are not like that at all, well a few of them, & they are the sweetest guy in school. There is nothing wrong with that, i think more people should be like you. And those people at your school dont know what they're talkin about, i bet they all are just a bunch of hoes who will do it with anyone. Dont listen to them.
Lindsay
07-13-05 8:53 PM
i think that you should have sex!!! i am a virgin, but i know that i will NOT wait until i am married, what if you r not sexually compatible with the person u marry, and the sex sux? then what? divorce, bc of bad sex? then ur screwed, in a diff kinda way, !
Lindsay
07-13-05 8:54 PM
and one more thing, guys that r virgins, turn me off, just b/c when i eventually do have sex, i want them to atleast know what they r doin...aim me...Linzi22006
Siera
07-14-05 11:27 AM
I think you should hold on to it because that is something special and you shouldn't give it to just anyone believe me i've been there. So, there's nothing wrong with that if that is what you want to do and it keeps you safe from STD's and HIV/AIDs
07-14-05 12:24 PM
I dont think thats bad at all.... I kno guys that say that too. Its weird cuz u think of guys always wanting sex and all that .... but i think thats .
Jessi
07-19-05 8:02 PM
Eric, I think that is totally awesome, and anyone who tells you that you are gay is stupid, including BOB! Okay, you just need to not let people get you down, I am waiting for marriage too, I am a girl but still, you have respect for yourself and you value your self and that is an awesome quality, I would prefer if the guy i am going to marry will be waiting for marriage too, that is the best thing you can offer someone, is to show them that you respect yourself enough not to give it up to just anyone and that you are saving it for that ONE special someone, wow, YOU ARE AWESOME, i wish more guys were like you!
belinda
08-12-05 4:27 PM
i really respect your decision.who knows your first time mite be your first chilld getting ready to come out.remember u can also get aids the first time.it's been a while since i met guyslike you.hopefully we can be (nothing else,i'm occupied)i'm jazz4ever@sbcglobal.net
Brian
08-19-05 10:44 PM
Great for you, its to know that im not the only guy planning on waiting, though no one at my school makes of me, some of them are so immature. You know, in ye olden days when the U.S. was not 80% atheist, it was actually weird if you did have sex before marriage. ignore those guys, who cares what they say, and never give in to peer pressure, one night of sex can literaly lead to your death (AIDS). it your choice and i hope you stick with it. im amased my self, a cynic, that any teenages on this site had tis much respect. judging the way GIRLS and guys are at my school i would have thought the responses would be the oposite. just a comment to those who said "ILL TRY" how can you try not to have sex? no one can make you unless they rape you, and for guys that aint gonna happen. either do or dont wait there is no try. not trying to be judgemental , just my opinion. anyways ignore those gus, they'll be dead in a year from AIDS any ways.
jamie
08-20-05 10:38 PM
I think that not having sex is a personal decision in the end what makes you happy is most important...I mean I have respect for you for that I am almost 19 and I am trying to wait to have sex until I fall in with someone that I know I will be with for a long time...take care....
much luv and aloha..jamie
*Megastar*
08-27-05 12:56 AM
I think that is so awesome! Do you know how hard it is to find virgin men that are over 21? Extremely! I totally respect that you want to wait.
09-03-05 9:46 AM
Thats so thats gr8t dont listen 2 people who cll u gay!
Lucy
09-04-05 10:27 PM
OMG! You are not gay. Not everybody wants to do that. I am a girl and I am waiting till I am married. I strongly believe in that and I like guys who are doing that also. Sex is a special thing and it should only be shared with somebody you truely (not like those fake teen s!). Wait for marriage....it will be worth it in the long run. I am proud to say I am still waiting and not falling for the pressure!
mike
09-06-05 10:43 PM
dude thats kool because my best friends bro caved into stuff like that and now he died from a drug overdose
Tiffany
10-01-05 3:04 PM
I think it is way that you are like that. Most guys around me are pervs so it is reasuring that there are guys lke you around. Personally, I think it is .
Louise
10-03-05 11:35 AM
i think that people at school who call you gay are just regretting they slept with someone so early or they pretend they have slept with someone. the person you sleep with first will feel special because you saved yourself for them and that is a ly thing. i hope it s.
Nikki
10-14-05 3:52 PM
That's awesome! I know I'd prefer a guy that hadn't slept with a billion girls already. Forget the jerks who call you gay, they don't know anything. THey're probably just jealous. I mean, see all the chicks saying how great you are? Lol. Yay for you Eric!
Danny
11-06-05 4:24 PM
any girl who gets you will be luck , your descion is great and for that your very and that is attractive to many girls keep it up you rock neva change because someone wants you to
sincerly.
Danny
mariah
11-12-05 12:27 PM
waiting is totally and the guys who say its gay are gay dont worry
elizabeth
11-21-05 10:07 PM
I know I'm a girl, but I think that that is awsome. don't pay attention to what other people think, do what you think is right. I think too many people take that sort of thing way too lightly. Also, DON'T give in to peer presure, you have the freedom of doing anything you want,that also includes NOT doing things. Don't give into anything and stay strong, you'll get through everything.
Innes
11-27-05 11:45 AM
that's great ... a lot of girls totally respect that cuz they probably are waiting too!
Molly
12-12-05 12:06 AM
I admire your self controll. It is a lot safer and smarter to wait until you are married. To want to wait until your married to have sex is a special gift that you should hold onto and not listen to people who try to pressure you into being " ". They're just giving you a hard time because you're different-which is a good thing. Being different and going your own way is sometimes the most difficult thing to do, and requires a lot of courage, self control, discipline, pride, and selflessness. Good luck
12-15-05 2:09 PM
dont let into the pressure man. I think its great that you are waiting I am I want to have something special to give 2 my man WHEN I marry him. I dont care if im engaged im waiting. Or if i truley LOVE him. And, those freaks at school are the gay ones. u sound stick to your decisions. They can make a world of difference in your future. I know i have made a few that have came back and bit me in the butt. And they bit hard. I still regret them today and im not very old yet. Just stay pure man and get your t butt out there and get a girl you like. If you have any other ?s you can always email me at jenniferhenry @cheerful.com. Keep .
12-31-05 1:32 PM
There's nothing wrong about waiting till your married. Dont listen to what those ppl at school say its your choice. There nothing but losers. I'm a virgin too and I'm waiting till I find the right guy idc if it takes till I'm married. I think that you seem like a guys all the guys at our school mostly aren't virgins all they want is but you know what they won't have a great time with the person they when they get older. I think that you make a good choice all guys i know leave the girl and never talk about there first or talk to her. I think you are a guy and i think you made the right choice. Well you know if you need someone to talk to you can im me or email me at lilhuntingchi ck05@yahoo.com or im me at soccerchikamber. well ttyl. Happy New Years
much 3, Amber
Blitzen
01-05-06 6:35 PM
You should do whateva makes u happy
gabby
01-15-06 5:14 PM
i think thats ok because alot of guys pressure girls and if your a guy and you dont want to untill your married i think thats t!
01-21-06 10:42 PM
I say u are the smartest guy out there and probably the greatest, if i hadn't lost my virginity already i'd be right in there with you, i think waiting until marrige is the best thing you can do... because then the girl your with is the girl you want to be with forever... some relationships may not work out for you like that, eg. if the girl you're marrying isn't a virgin and wants sex before she will marry you but relationships should never be all about sex and your one of the few guys who believe in that, GOOD FOR YOU!!!
Jacqulenne
01-25-06 10:53 PM
You should not be ashamed at all. Keeping your virginity is a very precious thing. Believe me guys don't want to admit it but in a way they are attracted to someone that hasn't had sex yet. Because sex gets old sooner or later.
02-12-06 3:19 PM
Hold off, for the one you . You my friend, are completely awesome.
Samantha
02-15-06 6:52 PM
Waiting totally takes guts espically if u tell people ur waiting, but u can do it and ur totally kool 4 doing that
03-03-06 9:06 PM
Beavis thinks: Its totally awsome that you dont want to have sex befoe marriage.you should stick to ur decisions! Butthead thinks: Dude u are like the smartest man in the world! U are totally awesome for making that decision and I can totally respect that.
Kaelyn
03-04-06 1:45 AM
I think that is , and there is nothing wrong with it. Most girls will appreciate it too. Even though I've done it, I seriously am thinking about waiting until I am engaged.
christina
03-08-06 8:19 PM
i think its ,i'm thinking about the same thing too.
Robin
04-04-06 3:20 AM
i think that is so . dont worry about what they say, you knowwho you are and why youre that way.be proud, i think its quite romantic!!
myki
04-13-06 6:38 PM
hey man you are not gay you are crazy
05-12-06 6:39 PM
Hey thats so awesome you want to wait! :D Ignor the other people. I think any girl that has sex before marriage is a slut. Be proud because you can control yourself and the others can't
Shannon
06-19-06 4:38 PM
Its stupid to have sex before you are married. i agree with you. I don't want to have a baby before marriage. Don't Rush. Just wait.
Jessica
06-21-06 11:20 AM
I am waiting til marrige too. its really hard to find a guy that is serious about that but when you do it's so awesome. never give into the pressure! because when you get older and ready for marrige... you will be glad you waited. I really think you are awesome for that
Tom
07-20-06 9:02 PM
i will wait to have sex with the most beautifulest and greatest girl in the world
Matthew
11-20-07 12:27 PM
yeah i'm waiting to i just can't seem to find the right chick. they always want to have sex with me and i dump them for that. they think I'm joking about it or something i don't get girls.
03-03-08 9:00 PM
Eric, man, you're not gay. The definition of a gay person is someone who prefers same-sex relationships. My preferences change a lot. Right now, I'm not interested and I find many guys attractive and some girls. Just because you don't have sex wouldn't necessarily mean you are gay. Hey, I don't have sex and I'm only thirteen years old. However, I do find the kids more respectful and mannered where I live and hopefully I will not be in the same situation you are in but that's okay.
Conor
04-17-09 10:07 PM
Some kid at my school was laughing at me because I haven't had a girlfriend.. or soemthing. I don't know... stupid me... I don't plan on having a girlfirned, much less having sex for a long time. I'mthe kind of person who doesn't see the point in teenage relationships, I don't know a single person who's married soemone they dated in middle school. I think you have a bright future if you hold true to that decision.
Joshua
05-04-09 1:46 PM
i dont want to have sex i just want to be able to jack off
peace2all
07-25-09 1:34 PM
personally, i think it's kind of noble and cute that you want to wait. almost no one waits anymore, and teen pregnancy is up to an all-time high. if you're going to, please use a condom or the pill.
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. I waited until I was with a guy I thought I was going to marry, but I didn't. Now I don't have anything special to give my husband on that nite. Sex is precious. Hold on buddy!
of u. Be proud ur a virgin, because when the person they had sex with leaves them, u can just laugh and say, "And guess what! I'm a virgin, and still have my gf! Haha!"
ed!
to have a guy friend like you. just ignore them retards. the kids at your school probably have over 10 stds, so in other words youre lucky. forget em youre better than that.
to know that im not the only guy planning on waiting, though no one at my school makes 
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. You my friend, are completely awesome.