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I am bestfriends with two guys (Devon and Yaylor) and one girl. My closest best friend is the one girl, Jessi, but I'm also close with the others. About a month ago, the four of us were at Taylor's house watching football, and we ended up pairing off... Taylor and I made out with each other, and he told me that he has had feelings for me for about a year now off and on, but never acted on them because I had a boyfriend the whole time until recently.

At the time, I didn't really think of him in that way, but recently I have been developing feelings for him. When I told Jessi this today she absoloutley flipped (her and Taylor liked each other last spring, but nothing EVER happened other than she watched ONE movie with him..during which they held hands). There are also three other girls that have feelings for Taylor. She told me that I couldn't date him, or she wouldn't talk to me. She told me she still has feelings for him, and I just can't do that if she has feelings for him.

I probably wouldn't have dated him anyways, but the fact that she told me that I CAN'T makes me so mad. who makes her the queen who gets to decide. Nothing ever even happened. It's not like they dated, or even kissed, and this was like....at least six months ago. While I don't want to lose a friend over this, I don't think it is fair that she can decide that I can't date him just because she can't get over him. What should I do >:

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	Allie	21-May-09

screw your friend she has no authority to be telling you who you can and cannot date, nothing happened between them and if she cant see past the fact that your friendship is more important than a guy then she isnt your friend at all. If you really have feelings for this guy and want to date him then you should, but if you dont then you shouldnt date the guy but talk to your friend about the way shes treating you because a best friend doesnt do that!

	.Miss.Natt.	17-Nov-08

If she knows you already got off wi him and was about that, then shes probably just jealous because nothing ever happened between them rather than still havin feelings for him.